Monthly archive: February, 2008

a Sexist idea

how it works

So Kate Harding had this posted, and it struck home so strongly I wanted to re-post it here.

I’m a girl that always thought I was bad at math (not true) and felt very intimidated by the boys in my classes through school. Now obviously this had something to do with my own confidence in my abilities, since not every girl I went to school with felt the same way, but in my experience this really does happen. BUT it seems like more and more women are getting involved in math and science, and this is becoming less of the norm. :) :) :)

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Myspace Photos

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observation:

there are many many women wearing lingerie, bikinis, or otherwise sexually suggestive articles in their MYSPACE photos

why?

it’s as if there is a whole culture of bikini models/naughty nurses/pornography stars are attempting to break into the biz thru online networking –

– one photo at a time

I have no issue with the photos themselves

it just makes me ask:

why are we (women) putting this image out?  why are we so into degrading ourselves?

is it for the attention?

is it the power in feeling sexy?

are these actual models wanting to get into the lingerie business?

i dont get it. nor do I understand the desire to put it on the internet.

when did being explicitly and obviously beautiful and sexual become the standard we aspire to. what happened to a little mystery?

just a thought.

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Informal Marie Claire Breakdown

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Everyone knows beauty magazines don’t promote a healthy body image. I wanted to look closer though….Inspired by glossed over, I decided to really look at the images presented to millions of women everyday. This months pick: January 2008 issue of Marie Claire.

7: Number of nude or implied nude images of women

18: Number of photos featured in the 101 outfit idea section

1: Article journaling the impossibility of not having sex for 30 days (who had this idea? really…)

57: Number of “smart beauty buys” i.e. items conveyed as not being advertisements, even though they are

0: Number of plus-sized models (or real people)

2: articles addressing addiction to cosmetic procedures

1: ad for breast implants

marie clare models diversity

44 total models or staff members featured

41 White

1 Asian

1 Black (Halle Berry)

1 Hispanic (Salma Hayek)

 

marie clare diversity real people

More diversity among the REAL people featured…

 

models in ads

(note: I use the term “other” only to distinguish that I didn’t want to presume the race of one model, and that she is not white or black)

So what can we conclude here? Just the obvious.

1) Overwhelming majority of white people featured in ads, models in articles, and second highest among the “real people.”

2) Especially among the models in articles, there was hardly even a runner up. It’s unbelievable that major celebrities would be the only people of color featured in all of the articles.

3) There are many mostly nude images of women

4) All of the women are thin

5) This magazine is not depicting anything close to the real world.

6) While not reading magazines is probably the best solution, someday I hope to see diversity on the pages, in the articles, in the ads. People with real non-airbrushed bodies, of every shape and size. Articles about actual issues, not promoting the notion of plastic surgery. Reality, or at least something like it.

We could ignore the images bombarding us constantly, but sometimes, if you look closer, the true absurdity can be the revealed.

 

(Please contact me if you would like to use these graphs for other purposes)

 

 

 

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Glossed Over dot com

For anyone who finds a large degree of ridiculousness in fashion magazines, this website might be for you. Glossed over dot come breaks down fashion magazines, the headlines, the photographs, the totally bizarre things they say. I don’t like it all, as it can sometimes be difficult to figure out what the point is — are they loving or hating on the new issue of a magazine? But it’s amusing, and sheds some reality on this crazy industry we all accept as normal. My favorite thing is the Lowest Common Denominator feature, where they break things down as in : 42 — the number of ad pages devoted to cosmetics, etc. I’m working on my own version, so stay tuned for that…

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Ins-pa-rat-ional?

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I have been tagged with a blogging award! this seems so anti-climactic since I only noticed after checking this very neglected site weeks after dear Connie at Naked Food Cafe tagged me –  thank you Connie!

Anyway, i’m not going to follow the rules. I don’t really want to tag people, and many of the blogs I frequent have already received this lovely award. I will, however, note some of the blogs that I adore, in no particular order:

  •  We Like It Raw. Love it, can’t get enough, always.
  • Raw Model. Anthony is really cool, one of my favorite writers and a surefire dose of inspiration for your day.
  • Every Woman has an Eating Disorder. Not cynical like it sounds - Dr. Stacy is a psychologist and works on all things disorder related, very insightful posts that are light (unlike the title might seem).
  • Kate Harding. The queen of fat acceptance bloggers, and she is hardcore and has opinions that rocked me at first. but I like seeing what she has to say, even if she does scare me.
  • Back in Skinny Jeans. Stephanie is really really honest, and I like that.
  • Size Ate. A woman of the theater who has a show I have yet to see, she blogs abogs about body image and other random things of interest, with a light and funny style.
  • Fat Free Vegan. I’ve honestly never tried any of the recipes, but the pictures are pretty.
  • Courtney Pool. I started to read her juice feasting blog, and she is a girl totally living on the edge, authentic, and pursuing her passions in raw food and life. I check her site daily and just WISH i could be a teeny bit more like her.

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One more day

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The other day I had a moment.

 

I’ve had a building sensation since I turned 20 that life was on fast forward and I was on the wrong route. It was unsettling, and I felt powerless. I like what I am doing in my life, but it never seemed like “enough.” It seemed like the week went by so fast I hardly had a moment to notice… anything. At night I thought, “One more day gone forever.” (Unhappy, right?)

 

 

Then the moment.

 

In a sleepless moment, lying in bed, I realized it was one more day I had the privelege to experience. It was one more day I got to enjoy. And the next morning, I thought, “Today is one more day I get to love. To do my best.” And there was a shift. A total shift. Suddenly I felt in control again, and a huge surge of gratitude for each day that I get to have.

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